We leave something out, and-so a shadow of doubt… and we know, We’re much better than this.
I prefer not to sit in the same seat all the time.
I play musical chairs, and see what I find.
And, I’ve found that most like to sit in the same seat all the time, where they’re comfortable and right.
As long as one knows where another sits, outcomes are predictable. And, unless one’s planned for a desired outcome, and anticipating the behavior of the other… we fall prey to our seat, and react as we think we should. We’re then simply faced with a new story, while remaining in the same seat; perhaps further stuck than we were before. The other’s seat may or may not have changed either. Likely not.
It’s just not the right time,
Or it’s not the right Bait.
You have a choice:
Continue (as you are) and Wait.
Or, switch it up, and try something else.
Think of a situation that really gets your blood boiling. Maybe a family member or friend. Maybe a situation at work. Maybe the sight of someone not wearing (or wearing) a mask in a public place.
Now imagine that situation as you can imagine staring into a pond, where the sunlight is reflecting right into your eyes; not a cloud in the sky. Blinding.
You’re at the pond fishing, and as you walk along the shore you’re wanting to see below the surface and to see some fish so you’ll know where to cast. You may realize, it’s not the suns fault that you can’t see. And, you may realize, you have the choice to turn around and to head in the other direction.
But, depending on the conditions, you still may not be able to see below the surface. Realize, this is temporary. Conditions change.
Back to the situation you had in mind…
It’s temporary right?… even if it’s a situation you deal with regularly. The moment is temporary. And, this is about exploration of self, and how we react to things.
When facing the unpleasant situation, you could try turning the other direction. And, you could also try facing it with a little more patience with yourself and with the other person(s). As hard as it may be, realize you’re not in control of others. You are in control of yourself and of how you respond.
Consider this too…
Light can be blinding, and it’s also needed to see.
When blinded by it, in the case of the pond and fishing, I like to say, it’s just one of those days, and I don’t need to see the fish to be able to cast. I might get lucky.
The other thing… if you’re never blinded, it’s hard if not impossible to grow. If you’re always seeing and doing things the same way, that’s very limited, and that’s just not the way life is. It’s good to be challenged.
If I only ever casted where I could see the fish, that would leave 90% of the pond unexplored.
The biggest fish I’ve ever caught were from casts at night and from casts into deeper, unknown waters.
Both sides are right.
It is what it is.
May it all come to light.
May we each learn and grow.
With Greater Good, top of mind.
Proper focus brings change.
Self improvement, we find.
So, don’t point your finger.
Rather, seek to understand.
Your opponent’s within.
Your next step’ in your hand(s).
Love to you. May this bring you good vibes,
And help you to be with more Light.
Allow amazing to happen. Just be open today.
Trust in love. This isn’t a Fight.
Get with the flow. Life’s like a stream.
The trick is to join it. Let Go.
Your thinking will change when you see things flow through you. Trust this. I’ve been there. I Know.
What do you want for yourself?
Are your desires grounded in health?
When you wake are you grateful? And, are you-with what is here? Or, are you racing, and what-is-it you fear?
If you know who you are and you know what you want… what about giving it back?
Do you give of yourself? In all that you do? Is there something you think that you lack?
Think of your thoughts. Be aware of your feelings. Do you feel good now, in the space where you are?
What is it that’s missing? A story, or real? This is Your Limit; your bar.
So, get in touch with yourself, and learn your distractions. We must learn to get out of our way.
You know what I mean. Your Self you have seen.
Get unlost and be better today.
This is the perfect articulation of an idea that is so important for all of us to realize.
“The mind’s internal dialogue is the source of our dissatisfaction; not the subject of its complaints.”
Control of your mind is the way to happiness.
You are in charge.
You are not a victim.
Don’t allow others nor circumstances to dictate how you’re feeling and what you’re thinking.
Choose to grow. Use affirmations. Believe in yourself. Believe in this life. Trust that you are with love and that your true self is love.
We are here for others. Give of yourself, wherever you are, and may you also be open to receiving love.
Wait a minute. That’s not right?
Here’s the deal. Like a kite.
Higher thoughts. The Way it Is.
Let’s make real like it’s our Biz
Apart from… human doing.
A part of, human Being.
You say, being is lazy, yet it’s you who’s not Seeing…
The way we and things are. As in, It is what it is, but what is it? Consider it.
What are you doing? Why? And, why do you complain so much?
Take responsibility for yourself and your mind, and find the good. Be the good.